Today, I want to tell you story about “Trust yourself to get better day.” I know every one wants to get happy life, but to find the happiness is not easy. It’s up and down, but if you know the key to trust yourself. Perhaps, you will get better day every day. A few weeks ago, I was watching cinema in XXI. It’s about Raya and The last dragon.

Why I was talking about this movie, because this movie similar with this topic. The kid Raya believe her new friend, but her new friend make something she never thought about it. Raya lost her diamond. After that accident, she is never trusted people anymore. Do you know TRUST can help you and I closer to other people, including family and friends. Even, I can say do not trust 100 percent to the people. At least, you should trust them.

May I ask a one question, do you trust yourself? If you trust yourself, then you are very confidence, and easy to make decisions. That is so good, because it can reduce stress. How if you don’t trust yourself right now, what will you do to make yourself to trust it. Lets talking about how to building trust in yourself.

In this life (your life) there is nothing important, you need to trust yourself. Life is not easy, that is right, perhaps you lose trust in yourself after making mistake or someone tell negative about yourself (criticizes). That will be very difficult to trust yourself and make decision. The reason you are afraid of make wrong decision.

That is why to build trust in yourself very important to help you boost decision about something. Because do you believe yourself, you are confidence. How to trust yourself. These some tips to trust yourself.

Be Yourself

Everyone’s afraid including you, it’s o.k if you fear about something unnecessary as someone judge you because the way your performance or about your look. I know, this is very difficult to believe yourself in around people like this. Actually, you can act like a different person and believe yourself, trust yourself. You are independent and smart. Don’t agree about what people think about you. Be yourself, because you are awesome.

Do you know, when I feel insecure because of people around me. I will remind myself that it’s OK to be “you.” That is not so easy, but you can start it by practicing around the people, you feel most comfortable. It is like your friends and close family. When you can be yourself, actually people in around you, they will treat you good. So, the First, you should be yourself, confidence because you are smart and confidence.

Making Reasonable Goals

Most people love to make goals in themselves, but sometimes they put goal in their plan to high. So, lets making yourself reasonable goals, For example, you have tight deadline about the project for two weeks duration. You can make goal to finish them less than two weeks. Making goals that will make you ambitious, but remember to make goal reality. Don’t make a high goal in alive.

This sound seem so silly, be kind to yourself. Actually, I know about this sentence very well. Sometimes I am so rude with myself. I am making high plan but sometimes it is making me feel stress, and mad. Because, I can’t make them real. So, I realize something miss and very important. I should be kind to myself. Making plan about myself are a very welling. The more important way how to loving myself unconditionally. It is mean in bad and good condition. I should think positive about myself. Sometimes, I am accepting or critical, as it will improve myself to be better. If the critical is something not necessary to hear it. I will keep my eyes and ears close, because I am trust myself. So you can do the same to be kind of yourself.

I will more spend my own time alone. I do it because I should know about myself better than before. In this way, I can make the best choice and also confidence about myself. That is the way to trust myself (yourself).